“Know how to make use of friends.”Baltasar Gracián · Oracolul manual · 1647 · Aforismul 13
True friendship is an active network of practical and tactful reciprocity.
Gracián does not encourage exploitation, but the art of asking and offering help with tact. Friends are not just for company, but for practical support in difficult times. Knowing how to make use of friends means asking the right advice at the right time, without abusing. Example: a lawyer friend can help with a legal issue, and you can support them in return. The relationship grows stronger through well-managed reciprocity.
Why it matters It teaches you to see friendship as an active support network, not just a social context. Use it with intelligence and gratitude, not selfishness.