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We do not choose our fate through moral decisions; we are knocked in one direction or another by a force outside ourselves.

Omar Khayyam · Rubaiate · 1120 · catrenul 641 minute readpublic domain
The Ball no question makes of Ayes and Noes, / But Right or Left as strikes the Player goesOmar Khayyam · Rubaiate · 1120 · catrenul 64

You don't choose life's direction; you're struck and roll wherever events push you.

The poet sees life as a game played by someone else. The ball has no will of its own and does not judge whether its path is good or bad; it simply takes the strike and rolls wherever it is sent. The mechanism is plain: circumstances — birth, war, illness, chance meetings — strike us first, and only afterwards do we call the result luck or guilt. A farmer who moves to the city because of drought did not choose a new life; the drought struck him.

Why it mattersUseful when you blame yourself too harshly for the direction events you never controlled have thrown you.

External strikeThe ball rollsLuck or blame
The event strikes, the ball moves, we label the result

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