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If you must do harm, do it all at once, so it can be endured.

Niccolò Machiavelli · Principele · 1532 · capitolul 31 minute readpublic domain
Injuries ought to be done all at one time, so that, being tasted less, they offend less.Niccolò Machiavelli · Principele · 1532 · capitolul 3

One wound gets forgotten; small repeated wounds pile up into hatred.

Repeated pain, however small, erodes patience and constantly recalls the offender. A single blow, however harsh, can be digested and then forgotten. A government that raises taxes once, sharply, survives; one that hikes them every year breeds cumulative fury. Psychology agrees: sudden losses are metabolized, drip-fed ones poison.

Why it mattersIn relationships and management: if bad news is unavoidable, deliver it once, in full. Drip-feeding turns one hard moment into a regime of torment.

One single blowRepeated smallblows
A single wound weighs less than the repeated drip

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