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A ruler should seek advice only when he wishes, not when others wish, and choose his counselors himself.

Niccolò Machiavelli · Principele · 1532 · capitolul XXIII1 minute readpublic domain
A prince ought always to take counsel, but only when he wishes, not when others wish.Niccolò Machiavelli · Principele · 1532 · capitolul XXIII

A leader must solicit advice only at the time and from the people they choose, in order to maintain control.

Machiavelli notes that advice becomes a trap if the prince listens to anyone at any time. Counsel is useful only if it remains a tool of the ruler's will, not an external pressure. For instance, a team leader who consults experts only at chosen moments keeps control; if bombarded daily with opinions, he ends up being led by them.

Why it mattersToday, anyone in a decision-making role — manager, entrepreneur, parent — can apply this rule to avoid being overwhelmed by unsolicited advice.

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The balance between soliciting and receiving advice.

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